This is an “In between interview episode” intended to draw out the learning from the previous one. Suggesting that moralism might be what’s going on in the world today, Judy describes how something as important as a moral compass can be given the power to destroy our world. With more passion than normal, she invites us to give one another freedom to form and live our own moral values. The unconscious insistence that I am right, automatically labels everyone who doesn’t agree as wrong. A great deal of insecurity arises with the need to be certain. It leads to judgment and a need to control others so that what I believe can rule. Even though the episode is based on the judgment Danny (episode 18)received from the church for being gay, it would be a mistake to see this as an episode evaluating homosexuality. This is just one more episode that gets to the heart of what it means to be human together. This episode begs the following questions…

Once we determine that all of us humans matter, will the divisiveness we feel dissolve? Are relationships possible across dividing beliefs if we matter? What do any of us have to lose by leaning in to find out? Listening to the end offers the opportunity to sign up for a group coaching course that explores the goodness of agenda-free loving.

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